I ask this question because a lot of people think that a lot of things are kinky when they're merely normal. Why is it that so many people's sex lives are so boring?
A lot of people are still stuck in the 50s and haven't progressed to the 30s when things got really freaky. :P
Anyway I had this guy explain to me that certain things outside of run-of-the-mill positions considered "kinky" by the boring masses are actually a part of normal sex but I forgot everthing he said. He was into asphixation, btw,
I think the main point of what I'm typing is "what's the deepest you've ever gone into sexual deviancy?" or the kinkiest shit you've ever done?
And if you have gotten into the devil's matchbook has it been hard to find someone sexually compatible with you?
Also what is your definition of kink? How far is too far? How much is too much?
Ever feel guilty about hedonism?