... the other Black experience
=== L-D-S-R Confessional ===
SEX
DATING
RELATIONSHIPS
...confess your sins and feelings
Massive respect to this thread's originator from the O.G. AfroPunk board, Xiamin. Holla back mami, see ya soon up on here!
Get busy folks...
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Permalink Reply by X-D-D-M*9 on
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= Whew, temptation (pardon the Philly lingo below):
Sweetheart, you better come with me to a weekend of New Year's celebrations next time because the opportunites were out there. Maybe I was being faithful, maybe I was using us being together to lunch (i.e.:chicken out, mess up) on these gorgeous jawns (i.e.:women) who seemed extra approachable this time. I know we have an open situation that I set forward but it was about to be really open in a sec. Give me points for being a good boy and sock it to me sweet when you arrive back in town.
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Permalink Reply by LesYpersound on -
the power of vulnerability
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Permalink Reply by CaliforniaAfrican on -
Why would you just take up so much of my time? I told you that you should talk with my husband about that art thang. He's doing that now. But, nooooooooo. You have to stand there over me and talk to me for almost 30 minutes. African. Come on. Thank you for the time, but you have folks waiting at home for you to bring back whatever it is you're supposed to be picking up. Then when you finally leave, you come BACK. Even the sista at the juice bar said, "Dang, did he just come back?" LOL "Would you like to sit for me? Can I paint you?" Ummmm, you'd better ask your wife first. I just don't think that the way you keep looking at my chest that that would be a good idea. Maybe you should just hang with my husband like I suggested. Come on, man.
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^^^ Never saw that vid & Kia Goodwin the lead female in blue is gorgeous. I haven't been in love before either...
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Permalink Reply by R usureureallyknowme Rich on -
The young hotty with a body confessed his love ages ago but also is way to young to want to settle down. My heart is there even though my mind knows I probably need to let him go. My heart wants to wait on him but my mind says that's stupid. There's another guy that I like and we're together but there's just not the same passion. It always takes some time for me to develop those feelings. Heck with the young hottie it was years getting to this point! I'm trying to turn off the feelings for the young one but in the back of my mind I feel like that's where I'm supposed to be. Is it lust, love, or something else that has me feeling this way? idk, all I can do is wish the young hottie the best and try to live my life.... right?
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Permalink Reply by Mark Clemons on
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Have some time to yourself,and figure out what or who's going to make U happy.
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Permalink Reply by lyfenlyn on -
Dude has left the building. Give him the walking papers.
Taradactyl said:How do you know when someones cheating on you? Is it when they can't look you in the eye anymore? Don't kiss you or say they love you anymore? Maybe you know because of the sinking feeling you get in your stomach every time he turns away or ignores you when you try to talk to him? And even if they are cheating does it matter when the relationship is pretty much over? Should it hurt as much? Is there a point in even bringing it up?
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Permalink Reply by lyfenlyn on
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Im sorry boo but you cant say something like 'i aint got time for hoes' then talk about 'you dont know my heart.' Um make up your mind. If you have a heart then you arent calling women hoes.
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Permalink Reply by LesYpersound on
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This new relationship is wrought with baggage on my end (neither good nor bad)--y'know the real stuff everyone should process and I've resumed weekly therapy sessions to keep the introspection on course. There's an almost ten year age gap, which is different b/c I usually swung up or down three years at the most (and my slight preference before was towards younger but mature guys to grow w/). The lifestyle component is right up my alley... and the open and varied channels of communication and education are so very helpful. I'm too excited about this and wonder... even if it lasts his average of 18 months I'd be happier and would've grown so much--but I need to feel and think my way through if this is the start of something that could result in a very longterm attachment and possibly children. O_O I can't even think about kids right now. BUT a part of me really wants to have kids sooner than later (e.g. closer to 25 than 30).
At first I wondered if I was pushing or trying too hard... and then after the first night I was freaking the hell out w/ confusion and anger and became even more confused. But, now I've settled a bit more into the idea of roles and having the physicality back in my life after years of choosing to not be touched romantically. :]
Been catching quite a bit of shit from my very good friends who I know love me and are angry at what they think (for good reason) is a very dangerous and self-destructive situation.
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Permalink Reply by conspicuious green on -
How the hell?? date?? what date??
You have issues! ! look like a gremlin (a sexy gemlin)
I'm really slow on the uptake, how do i not realise i've been taken on a "date" untill the next day.
I told you I'm still heart broken and I don't date people I work with meaning you do not have a chance in hell mainly because of your dodgy personality and secondly your looks thirdly your age.... we can be mates though
It amazes me that you got it so completely wrong, i'm sorry.
Damn it works going to be all fucking weird now :'(
WTH is wrong with people these days. arggh!!
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