My boyfriend is going off to college....in DC, we live in Jersey! I go to college next year and I don't want to do the whole, go to his college or a college in his area just because he goes to college there. He wanted to go to college in Jersey, but I didn't want him to go to college here because I want him to go and have a real college experience. I don't want to break up with him, AT ALL. But i know how college is and even though I don't distrust him I don't want to be a hinderance nor do I want to spend time worrying or for him to worry about me. What do you all think?