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Ass or Tits?
come on you know you have a preference. spit it out :)
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Permalink Reply by Madamoiselle De Sade on -
Both. Either one or both. Preferences are for little boys who like to collect girls.
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Permalink Reply by Ken-K on -
I definitely argree. I used to be baffled by people's love of Mena Suvari after American Beauty especially when Thora Birch had them tig ol' bitties that no one seemed to care about!), but recently I've realized she's got a nice little tush for a becky! And it works for the rest of her body. But there are women who just have a big asses, but they don't compliment the rest of their bodies. Same for breasts. I remember girls in high school who had damn near double E's, but they were so thin everywhere else, their backs must have been killing them, and sometimes, it would show.
It's great if you've got a little bit of both, in my opinion. Sometimes you can get by with one or the other, but a lot of factors come into play.
Kendrick Irvin said:Well actually no, I dont. I enjoy both of them. Really it depends on what looks good on the person. Not everyone looks good with big boobs and ass sometimes.
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Permalink Reply by Fashionfreak on -
i was just curious .. i am a pretty small chested girl and lately i have been running into guys who don't dig that shit blah!
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Permalink Reply by Madamoiselle De Sade on
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Story of my life. I'm flat chested and I never run into anyone who likes it, just people who "tolerate" it. That's why I believe preferences are for little boys. That's the main thread in all little boys, if they have certain things they look at or things they ONLY look at then they are little boys stuck in a "pick and choose" world of women.
It's hard to explain but in sociology it comes from boys always being given "types" in magazines to jerk off to, it's social architecture. It's sort of like one big Pokemon game with different types of women and preferences are an expression of this "gotta catch 'em all" approach to women by a society that categorizes us by breast size and ass size. And black culture is no better with it's male emphasis on "thickness".
Unfortunately, in this world that type of sexism is encouraged (it's actually the "harmless" default) because guess who built the world?
Asian girls do pretty well, unfortunately it's due to that nasty, condescending "asian fetish" a lot of men have. Which is an off shoot of "collecting women".
Juicyincouture said:i was just curious .. i am a pretty small chested girl and lately i have been running into guys who don't dig that shit blah!
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Permalink Reply by Fashionfreak on
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you're telling me pssshh. in highschool i killed to wear padded bras just to make the shit look bigger now it's like fuck it whatever. guys have some much darn expectations.
Mlle d. Sade said:Story of my life. I'm flat chested and I never run into anyone who likes it, just people who "tolerate" it. That's why I believe preferences are for little boys. That's the main thread in all of them, if they have certain things they look at or things they ONLY look at then they are little boys stuck in a "pick and choose" world of women, hard to explain but in sociology it comes from boys always being given "types" in magazines to jerk off to, it's social architecture. Unfortunately, in this world that type of sexism is encouraged.
Juicyincouture said:i was just curious .. i am a pretty small chested girl and lately i have been running into guys who don't dig that shit blah!
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Permalink Reply by Madamoiselle De Sade on
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I gave up on bras in highschool, they are nothing but a hindrance unless you get the special sizes from Lulu petites.
This link may help: http://lulalu.com/
I just think the whole thing is a product of extremely sexist culture that thrives on creating images of "types" of women to SELL to men (the whole sex=money thing). And these "types" become reality and what men expect to be given. (like spoiled children) That's why small chests are "unfeminine" and women have to look a certain way and we're constantly being judged by some assholes. And in the black culture it's an ironically de-humanizing worship of the booty that SO MANY women buy into. So many women buy into all of this because it's "normal". Just think if women did this to men on the same large scale that it is done to women in "society". How "normal" would that be? Shit would change pretty quick. Men already get butt sore whenever women start liking pretty boys or perfect men (just asking for more in terms of appearance from men), which is rare that a woman ever asks the same things of a man in terms of physical appearance that are asked of women on daily basis.
Anyway, gotta catch 'em all! Like carnivorous hunters of flesh. And men wonder why they get called dogs.
Juicyincouture said:you're telling me pssshh. in highschool i killed to wear padded bras just to make the shit look bigger now it's like fuck it whatever. guys have some much darn expectations.
Mlle d. Sade said:Story of my life. I'm flat chested and I never run into anyone who likes it, just people who "tolerate" it. That's why I believe preferences are for little boys. That's the main thread in all of them, if they have certain things they look at or things they ONLY look at then they are little boys stuck in a "pick and choose" world of women, hard to explain but in sociology it comes from boys always being given "types" in magazines to jerk off to, it's social architecture. Unfortunately, in this world that type of sexism is encouraged.
Juicyincouture said:i was just curious .. i am a pretty small chested girl and lately i have been running into guys who don't dig that shit blah!
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Permalink Reply by Fashionfreak on
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it sucks when people see something that was either airbrushed or stuffed with silicone thinking those are the type of people they should be dating when in fact majority of the female population doesn't look like that. a select few look like that naturally without enhancements yes, but then it's like what happened to the rest of us? i admit it does get to me sometimes b/c i feel like looks are what the naked eye sees first point blank period that's just life. not saying personality doesn't count b/c it damn sure does but keeping shit real who does not want a good looking chick? i just think the definition of a good looking chick is narrow nowadays. thanks for the link btw :)
Mlle d. Sade said:I gave up on bras in highschool, they are nothing but a hindrance unless you get the special sizes from Lulu petites.
This link may help: http://lulalu.com/
I just think the whole thing is a product of extremely sexist culture that thrives on creating images of "types" of women to SELL to men (the whole sex=money thing). And these "types" become reality and what men expect to be given. (like spoiled children) That's why small chests are "unfeminine" and women have to look a certain way and we're constantly being judged by some assholes. And in the black culture it's an ironically de-humanizing worship of the booty that SO MANY women buy into. So many women buy into all of this because it's "normal". Just think if women did this to men on the same large scale that it is done to women in "society". How "normal" would that be? Shit would change pretty quick. Men already get butt sore whenever women start liking pretty boys or perfect men (just asking for more in terms of appearance from men), which is rare that a woman ever asks the same things of a man in terms of physical appearance that are asked of women on daily basis.
Anyway, gotta catch 'em all! Like carnivorous hunters of flesh. And men wonder why they get called dogs.
Juicyincouture said:you're telling me pssshh. in highschool i killed to wear padded bras just to make the shit look bigger now it's like fuck it whatever. guys have some much darn expectations.
Mlle d. Sade said:Story of my life. I'm flat chested and I never run into anyone who likes it, just people who "tolerate" it. That's why I believe preferences are for little boys. That's the main thread in all of them, if they have certain things they look at or things they ONLY look at then they are little boys stuck in a "pick and choose" world of women, hard to explain but in sociology it comes from boys always being given "types" in magazines to jerk off to, it's social architecture. Unfortunately, in this world that type of sexism is encouraged.
Juicyincouture said:i was just curious .. i am a pretty small chested girl and lately i have been running into guys who don't dig that shit blah!
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Permalink Reply by LesYpersound on -
i like my girls narrower (ches, hips, ass....not completely flat--but more boyish than usual)
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Permalink Reply by Renegade Muthafuckin' Green on -
curves are great :)
coming from a curvy chick that is.
but if i had 2 choose, i'd say i'm a ass girl
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Permalink Reply by Fashionfreak on
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sorry i was busy ranting :)
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Permalink Reply by Madamoiselle De Sade on
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It's mostly about first sight. Personality comes later. I think, anyway. People tend to approach what they like and what they like is really influenced by the images of women sold to the public.
It's a little like being left out of the coverage. You're left out of $$ opportunities or other opportunities (like the ability to find the right kind of person to have sex with) because you don't look like what a sexy woman is supposed to look like. And I'm not talking about an idealistic view of sexiness that progressive people tend to have I'm talking about cold, hard reality. And that's reality.
Juicyincouture said:it sucks when people see something that was either airbrushed or stuffed with silicone thinking those are the type of people they should be dating when in fact majority of the female population doesn't look like that. a select few look like that naturally without enhancements yes, but then it's like what happened to the rest of us? i admit it does get to me sometimes b/c i feel like looks are what the naked eye sees first point blank period that's just life. not saying personality doesn't count b/c it damn sure does but keeping shit real who does not want a good looking chick? i just think the definition of a good looking chick is narrow nowadays. thanks for the link btw :)
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Permalink Reply by Civilized Radical Films on -
Ass. Because Tits can kinda get in the way if you're going in for just a hug and a peck on the cheek. Plus, I've notice that girls with huge breast, seem to bend over, and I've heard that it gives some of them back problems. But I guess, it depends on the woman because, some girls wouldn't look right with big tits. Plus, they sag (depending on the woman) after some time.
The Ass in general just looks delicious....
To quote Gucci for a moment: "Im'a dog, I'ma dog..." ^_^
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