I am sorry to say this...but you were being selfish by not putting your daughter first from jump street. Even if you love this man, do you love him more than your daughter? Taking her out of private school (interfering with her eduction which will help determine her future) and then sending her away to live with her dad (self esteem issues), you seemingly put the love/loyalty you have for this man before your daughter. Kids catch onto things very quickly and she may internalize this and feel that you love this man more than you love her. In a child's mind's eye, you should not have sent her away.
You did a good thing by standing by this man who you love, but on the other hand your daughter should have been the number one. After giving the most to your child, whatever you had left over, you could give to your man.
But since you did not make a commitment to this fellow, you can walk away. You can decide that your daughter is the number one in your life and tell him you need to do what is best for you and your daughter.
It is also possible to work this out with him, if you love him. You can still be there for him, but your priorities need to be to your child and your self.
Does he not have health insurance? There are some services that assist person's who don't have the money to pay for their treatment.
I hope this helps.
We'll I feel "you two" should have a talk. Not to sound cruel,but to me it looks as if his disease is manifesting itself in your life. Being that you're seemingly struggling/exhausting yourself alongside him, it's doesn't look like it will have a good end well.
On the matter of "selfishness", this is a very complicated term for myself at least. Do you feel you have anything in abundance to offer to him in this particular circumstance--Other than support? Anyhow i feel you two should just have this conversation.
U have to look out 4 U in the long run.Not to many chicks would let their kids live with their fathers,I know my son's mom wouldn't.I've had chicks try to take food out of my sons mouth but I wasn't having that shit! U AIN'T MARRIED 2 HIM!!!!!!!
We broke up and I moved to Maryland .... I can only take so much !!!! o.O