Should women tell their female friends how good the sex is @ home?

Hey AP Fam,

I have a question for you all!! Me and my lady always have this same discussions with our friends!! Should women tell their female friends how good the sex is at home? My answer to this is NO, NO, NO!!! The reason I say this is because I have seen what it can do the other women!! When you tell your friends (including men telling there boys) how good your sex life is it begins to breed curiosity. So many people in this world do not know what good sex really is!! So when they hear you braging about your man/woman...... as Chris Rock said " They want what you have". Is it wrong for them to feal this way as your friend? No!!! It is normal and more than likely (In my opinion) your fault. It's like putting a Mcdonalds add for a new Quadruple Big Mac in front of a Fat Farm!!! Stop talking to much guys and gals.... it can only lead to trouble unless you are th ultimate swinger!! Trust me.... My lady learned her lesson when her ex;best friend asked me to suck my dick on my birthday years ago. "She said "Vixen is always talking about how you beat her pussy up.... I just want to suck it and see if I can get a sample"!! I of course said no and told my lady...... but to keep it real..... I only told her because I thought they were trying to set me up!! LOL..... so brothers and sisters beware!! I would have done it if I thought I could of got away with it!! Plus my lady is Detective of the year!! She don't play that shit!!

Tell me what you think about this! My lady says that there are very few friends she can trust me around but she still watches all women... even her mother!! LOL (just kidding about her mom..... she is hot though!! Damn....!!!! Did i say that!! LOL) Rock On!!

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Permalink Reply by Compound Egret on February 8, 2009 at 4:08pm

I agree, but not just for the reason you mentioned. A lot of the times it is just way more info than you ever wanted to hear. You also never know what the other person's situation is. You might have a hedonistic smorgasbord going on and your friend might be starving.

That being said, this post was pretty funny. Continue on. What's your girl going to do when she reads this?

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Permalink Reply by Afrokitty on February 8, 2009 at 7:00pm

For the most part I do agree. There are really, really good best friends that you can talk to about it. But that does not mean you should. People pick up on the sexual energy and might want to try more.

Its like your describing a really good restaurant you visit a lot to a hungry person. If they are ever in the area they might just want to see what all the fuss is about.

And sometimes, you really don't want to imagine your friends having sex. I got one friend that can be so explicit but I see her as being so innocent that its hard to hear that she is a woman. Yikes! Save my ears and my visual image bank.

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Permalink Reply by Lucky Church on February 8, 2009 at 7:37pm

LMAO.... she already knows how I am!! LOL.... We have finally come to the point where our communication is the most important thing in our relationship!! We really work together!! There is "Almost" nothing she doesn't know about me!! LOL, I still have a few bones in my closet!! LOL..... I plan on telling her about that stuff soon.

Compound Egret said:

I agree, but not just for the reason you mentioned. A lot of the times it is just way more info than you ever wanted to hear. You also never know what the other person's situation is. You might have a hedonistic smorgasbord going on and your friend might be starving.

That being said, this post was pretty funny. Continue on. What's your girl going to do when she reads this?

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Permalink Reply by Lucky Church on February 8, 2009 at 7:40pm

I hear that!! There are a few resteraunts that even have me intrigued!! LOL...... I have a friend that is seemingly innocent! Yet some of the things that come out of her mouth I wouldn't expect to hear from a Hoe in Amsterdam with dick earrings and cum flavored lip gloss!!! HELLO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Afrokitty said:

For the most part I do agree. There are really, really good best friends that you can talk to about it. But that does not mean you should. People pick up on the sexual energy and might want to try more.

Its like your describing a really good restaurant you visit a lot to a hungry person. If they are ever in the area they might just want to see what all the fuss is about.

And sometimes, you really don't want to imagine your friends having sex. I got one friend that can be so explicit but I see her as being so innocent that its hard to hear that she is a woman. Yikes! Save my ears and my visual image bank.

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Permalink Reply by CurvyDivaJC on February 9, 2009 at 10:18am

I think you can share without being too descriptive. You never know...the other woman may learn something or want to try something that she had never done before. I do have only one friend that I share those things with. I would not broadcast it to all of my friends. But I share to compare and take notes. Some of the best things I have done has been suggested from a friend. I am just saying....LOL

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Permalink Reply by Rosenda on February 9, 2009 at 12:36pm

Well said CDJC. I think in general two things play a part in whether or not you are gonna tell your friends about your personal life details. Your personality (some people don't talk about that to anyone no matter how good it is) and the friend in particular you are talking to (some people don't want to hear about that from anyone).

I admit I'm a loudmouth sharer of details if I feel that comfortable and close and trusting around someone.
And yes that is true of here on Afropunk here too. Compound, that is true, when I was single and not dating at ALL I didn't want to hear people's details even if they were happy about it, it made me feel stupid and sad sometimes.

JUS, about that situation you mention............there are women who look for "taken" men regardless.
Your lady might not have said anything to the other girl but even if she'd just seen you two walking happily down the street looking satisfied, THAT is enough of a trigger for someone woman trying to take you away on the side.

Your lady is partially right: there are few people you can trust (men included). In life, you have to watch and observe people's words and actions over time til they can really prove to you can trust them. Unless you are Miss Cleo or Walter Mercado, you can't know for sure who wants to do what.

BUT you have to balance that fact with the reality of not living your entire life paranoid about other women/men with your loved ones. Point blank.........if you all have a good mutual relationship, the ones you should trust most are each other.

I ain't all into that detective shit, though: if he really wants me and I really want him, we gonna show each other that and be clear about it. All that game playing men on the side shit........that may be fun for some women and men, but that seems like waaaaaay too much work to be worth it.

CurvyDivaJC said:

I think you can share without being too descriptive. You never know...the other woman may learn something or want to try something that she had never done before. I do have only one friend that I share those things with. I would not broadcast it to all of my friends. But I share to compare and take notes. Some of the best things I have done has been suggested from a friend. I am just saying....LOL

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Permalink Reply by Obsidian on February 10, 2009 at 6:02pm

Um ... doesn't all the stuff you just wrote contradict the point of this thread? Now we know your dick capabilities, the mindless hordes of women with zombie vaginas and zombie libidos will converge on you and demand the goods in order to satiet their unending hunger for dick or sex.

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Permalink Reply by XiaMin on February 12, 2009 at 8:15pm

I agree. DON'T DO IT! lol. I might share and compare notes in a totally 'hypothetical' way with a close friend but I never give up exactly what ol boy is doing or how or when or how many times. Sorry, I think that's like placing an ad that says "please try to fuck my man/woman!" Funny I've always thought that way..sometimes I wondered if I was being too suspicious but my boyfriend learned that shit the hard way, when his best friend at the time decided to answer the ad and his (ex)wife was more than happy to oblige.

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Permalink Reply by Candypink on February 15, 2009 at 4:44am

NO! Don't be tellin them shit. Tell the corny shit. Like goofy or ugly faces and or that he fart. Something every unflattering. If you tell the good good. They gona try too see what's up. Ooooooo whew.

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Permalink Reply by Rosenda on February 18, 2009 at 10:51pm

DAMN, Xiamin. That's raw!!

I really am glad now there are very few people I've told in person among my friends how good Shaman is, and even then I didn't go into too much detail, ya know? I don't know how I'd deal with some sitiation like that, would I bail or would I fight? I kinda feel like if a man or woman can be taken then they didnt want to be there in the first place: but that example tells me very clearly: it ain't good to tempt FATE.

XiaMin said:

I agree. DON'T DO IT! lol. I might share and compare notes in a totally 'hypothetical' way with a close friend but I never give up exactly what ol boy is doing or how or when or how many times. Sorry, I think that's like placing an ad that says "please try to fuck my man/woman!" Funny I've always thought that way..sometimes I wondered if I was being too suspicious but my boyfriend learned that shit the hard way, when his best friend at the time decided to answer the ad and his (ex)wife was more than happy to oblige.

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Permalink Reply by Rosenda on February 18, 2009 at 10:53pm

Right!! Keep some to yourself, like that lady Seriously Mcmillan says on her website. I think she was talking about any subject in general being overly loud and boastful, but it goes DOUBLE when you talking about your LOVE, ya know?

Candypink said:

NO! Don't be tellin them shit. Tell the corny shit. Like goofy or ugly faces and or that he fart. Something every unflattering. If you tell the good good. They gona try too see what's up. Ooooooo whew.

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Permalink Reply by Gullah*Gotham*Glitter on February 21, 2009 at 12:55am

Women are the most vengeful, vendictive, jealous, etc of the two genders. So to tell your friends who big your man's dick is or who great the sex is is just stupid on any womans part. It's like don't be shocked when you find your best friend ridding your man when you put it in her head. Females are really catty like that. I personally have seen it happen waaaaaaaaaaay too much.

The funny thing is some of the times its nothing personal. Like the friend will still want to be friends with her girl even though she is fucking her girl's man. It's just business I guess, hoe business.