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Should women tell their female friends how good the sex is @ home?
Hey AP Fam,
I have a question for you all!! Me and my lady always have this same discussions with our friends!! Should women tell their female friends how good the sex is at home? My answer to this is NO, NO, NO!!! The reason I say this is because I have seen what it can do the other women!! When you tell your friends (including men telling there boys) how good your sex life is it begins to breed curiosity. So many people in this world do not know what good sex really is!! So when they hear you braging about your man/woman...... as Chris Rock said " They want what you have". Is it wrong for them to feal this way as your friend? No!!! It is normal and more than likely (In my opinion) your fault. It's like putting a Mcdonalds add for a new Quadruple Big Mac in front of a Fat Farm!!! Stop talking to much guys and gals.... it can only lead to trouble unless you are th ultimate swinger!! Trust me.... My lady learned her lesson when her ex;best friend asked me to suck my dick on my birthday years ago. "She said "Vixen is always talking about how you beat her pussy up.... I just want to suck it and see if I can get a sample"!! I of course said no and told my lady...... but to keep it real..... I only told her because I thought they were trying to set me up!! LOL..... so brothers and sisters beware!! I would have done it if I thought I could of got away with it!! Plus my lady is Detective of the year!! She don't play that shit!!
Tell me what you think about this! My lady says that there are very few friends she can trust me around but she still watches all women... even her mother!! LOL (just kidding about her mom..... she is hot though!! Damn....!!!! Did i say that!! LOL) Rock On!!
I have a question for you all!! Me and my lady always have this same discussions with our friends!! Should women tell their female friends how good the sex is at home? My answer to this is NO, NO, NO!!! The reason I say this is because I have seen what it can do the other women!! When you tell your friends (including men telling there boys) how good your sex life is it begins to breed curiosity. So many people in this world do not know what good sex really is!! So when they hear you braging about your man/woman...... as Chris Rock said " They want what you have". Is it wrong for them to feal this way as your friend? No!!! It is normal and more than likely (In my opinion) your fault. It's like putting a Mcdonalds add for a new Quadruple Big Mac in front of a Fat Farm!!! Stop talking to much guys and gals.... it can only lead to trouble unless you are th ultimate swinger!! Trust me.... My lady learned her lesson when her ex;best friend asked me to suck my dick on my birthday years ago. "She said "Vixen is always talking about how you beat her pussy up.... I just want to suck it and see if I can get a sample"!! I of course said no and told my lady...... but to keep it real..... I only told her because I thought they were trying to set me up!! LOL..... so brothers and sisters beware!! I would have done it if I thought I could of got away with it!! Plus my lady is Detective of the year!! She don't play that shit!!
Tell me what you think about this! My lady says that there are very few friends she can trust me around but she still watches all women... even her mother!! LOL (just kidding about her mom..... she is hot though!! Damn....!!!! Did i say that!! LOL) Rock On!!
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Permalink Reply by Madamoiselle De Sade on -
Gullah*Gotham*Glitter said:Women are the most vengeful, vendictive, jealous, etc of the two genders. So to tell your friends who big your man's dick is or who great the sex is is just stupid on any womans part. It's like don't be shocked when you find your best friend ridding your man when you put it in her head. Females are really catty like that. I personally have seen it happen waaaaaaaaaaay too much.
The funny thing is some of the times its nothing personal. Like the friend will still want to be friends with her girl even though she is fucking her girl's man. It's just business I guess, hoe business.
If that's a serious threat, find a better quality of female friend. All that catty nonsense is concubine-like jockeying spurred on by insecurities put upon us by a society that wants absolutely NO solidarity among women so we continue to honor men above other women. Divide and conquer, yadda yadda yadda.
Besides that, what the FUCK does the title of the thread even mean? "should women tell their female friends how good the sex is at home?". ..what's the point of that question?
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Permalink Reply by XiaMin on -
"Besides that, what the FUCK does the title of the thread even mean? "should women tell their female friends how good the sex is at home?". ..what's the point of that question?"
It's not hetero, bi, or homosexual specific. Basically, the point of the question is should you let your friends know how good you have it sexually. How much detail should you share and is it wise to do so at all. I still say NO, not unless you want your friends to try and sample the good stuff you got.
I think Lucky Church was just coming from the hetero point of view, but honestly, it applies across the board. Straight, Gay, Lesbian, Bi ... people are people. Vengeful, vindictive, jealous know no gender or sexual orientation. So maybe the answer is to tailor your sharing....share the juicy juicy stuff only with those who wouldn't be tempted.
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Permalink Reply by Rosenda on -
Right on, Xiamin. Get into the details of your personal life only with those you REALLY trust, be that man or woman.
I've seen that kind of unnecessary backstabbing "I'ma take our man/woman" shit among straight and gay couples, men AND women. I get your point Mlle, that goes for men too. I've heard some dudes don't like to tell all their buddies about their new woman or man BECAUSE they don't trust ALL their friends. That's sad but it's the truth of life.
Mlle one does have to be careful and picky over time whom you let close to you in your life and tell your business too.
We all have to learn this the hard way, ya know?
XiaMin said:"Besides that, what the FUCK does the title of the thread even mean? "should women tell their female friends how good the sex is at home?". ..what's the point of that question?"
It's not hetero, bi, or homosexual specific. Basically, the point of the question is should you let your friends know how good you have it sexually. How much detail should you share and is it wise to do so at all. I still say NO, not unless you want your friends to try and sample the good stuff you got.
I think Lucky Church was just coming from the hetero point of view, but honestly, it applies across the board. Straight, Gay, Lesbian, Bi ... people are people. Vengeful, vindictive, jealous know no gender or sexual orientation. So maybe the answer is to tailor your sharing....share the juicy juicy stuff only with those who wouldn't be tempted.
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Permalink Reply by Madamoiselle De Sade on
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I don't know. ..I wouldn't tell anybody anyway because I don't tell my business. To me (personally) it's a question that doesn't have to be asked because it's nobody's business. And if everyone around me has that hard a time finding a good lover then maybe they should stop settling. Or something.
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Permalink Reply by Seun K on -
Big No No....Ex used to brag to her friends about how i put it down......The day we broke up, same friend came knocking on the door to get some.....I guess i would say YES YES
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Permalink Reply by Miss Lashea on -
I don't, cause some females are scandalous...
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Permalink Reply by lyfenlyn on -
It's basically giving your girl a guide on how to take your man/ woman so no.
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Permalink Reply by GodsavetheQueer on -
"Women be wise, keep your mouths shut..don't advertise yo man." - Sippi Wallace.
lol actually. I dunno. I think telling each and every detail is unnecessary not because someone's gonna try to take your man/woman/whatever, but because some things should be private. It's okay to talk about how good yall got it in on one particular night, but to talk about how good your person's puttin it down on the regular? That, like anything discussed too much, gets boring. So yeah, people can tell me how good their girl fucked them but i've never had the desire to go find out. But then I don't understand why ANYONE would wanna fuck someone their friend's already been in. Your friend's sloppy seconds? Maybe my ego's just ridic but that's grody as fuck.
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Permalink Reply by Lady of War on -
The only times I've ever told my friends about the sex I've had was when it was a casual thing. It was nothing serious and I treated it as such.
On the other hand, I've never went into details about sex when it was with someone serious. It's a respect thing.
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Permalink Reply by Mark Clemons on
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HELL NO!!!!! them female friends could stab her in the back.Ladies! keep your girls away from your MAN! its not the man U need to watch its your female friends U have to watch even HARDER nowadays.
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Permalink Reply by dee lewis on -
I asked my gf if she talks to her friends about our sex life and she was like hell nah cause she don't want her friends getting any ideas
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Permalink Reply by leandrafrance -
Nope cuz she's going to want to try your manout if he is good! And if he sucks in bed is she going to blurt that out when she gets upset ...soooo its better to keep that info to yourself
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