... the other Black experience
so, umm...
i'm doing summer
school, and i think i befriended this girl living in the dorm i'm
staying in. "think" because she's a bit of a pothead and idk if it was
the pot talking when she actually responded to me saying "Hi" to her.
anyway, she has a BF and all of that, but she "agreed" (the pot again, i
think) to hang out later. so, idk where i'm going with this, but what to do???
school, and i think i befriended this girl living in the dorm i'm
staying in. "think" because she's a bit of a pothead and idk if it was
the pot talking when she actually responded to me saying "Hi" to her.
anyway, she has a BF and all of that, but she "agreed" (the pot again, i
think) to hang out later. so, idk where i'm going with this, but what to do???
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Permalink Reply by Shannon Stone on -
just chill with her, be aware though.
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Permalink Reply by Q.A.Bradford on -
avoid the wacky tobacky.
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Permalink Reply by C-Martin88 on -
i know no sly stuff, just a once in a blue moon thing anyone of the opposite sex wants to hang out. so idk what to do
Phactz said:just hang out with her. but no sly stuff.
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Permalink Reply by Madamoiselle De Sade on -
If you want something beyond friendship, don't hang out with her.
Weed might be beneficial to you.
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Permalink Reply by C-Martin88 on
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i want friendship, or else i wouldn't had pursued anything with her.
Madamoiselle De Sade said:If you want something beyond friendship, don't hang out with her.
Weed might be beneficial to you.
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Permalink Reply by Phactz on -
Fuck above the influence (at this point) if she offers you tha stickest of the icky....Smoke that shit! BASK IN IT!
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Permalink Reply by Wheredawhitewomenat on -
http://www.afropunk.com/forum/topics/money-and-making-messes?commen...
Let's not start this again...
Is there someone you can PM about this?
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Permalink Reply by LesYpersound on -
lol.
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Permalink Reply by Golem_3 on -
if you want friendship, then whats the problem?
Do you have any reason to believe that she wants to fuck?
If not, then you're over-thinking things.
Take life light.
Go easy on yourself.
Just live.
Don't worry so much about something that may or may not happen.
The fun is in the experience. Not the expectation.
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Permalink Reply by C-Martin88 on
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i'm not trying to fuck, she's not trying to fuck. i'm just really cautious about befriending females, especially ones who have boyfriends/fiances. i've been avoiding them as of late, so i have no clue what to do, how to feel, etc.
Golem_3 said:if you want friendship, then whats the problem?
Do you have any reason to believe that she wants to fuck?
If not, then you're over-thinking things.
Take life light.
Go easy on yourself.
Just live.
Don't worry so much about something that may or may not happen.
The fun is in the experience. Not the expectation.
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Permalink Reply by Madamoiselle De Sade on
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I like to be entertained so I'll entertain you, C-Martin.
C-Martin88 said:i'm not trying to fuck, she's not trying to fuck.
Alright, then. Just hang out.
C-Martin88 said:i'm just really cautious about befriending females, especially ones who have boyfriends/fiances. i've been avoiding them as of late, so i have no clue what to do, how to feel, etc.
Why? If you're not up to any funny business you shouldn't be clueless as how to feel. Feel nothing and just do.
Have you ever considered taking an MBTI personality test? It's good for discerning subconscious feelings and finding rhyme and reason. It's also a good indicator.
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