The Dome Thread

I've decided to the let the AP's in on an ongoing conversation I have been having with some of the guys at work. I think most of us probably like some head if we have had it. I know not all guys have been eaten up before but for those of us who have it is unanimous that the feeling is almost indescribable. Even if she spits having the woman pull that nut out of you and letting you cum in her mouth is pretty damn awesome. What the guys at work were split up pretty evenly. One group wouldn't wife up a girl who would eat nut. The others wouldn't wife up a woman unless she let him bust in her mouth and preferably eat the load. What do you guys think about that? Guys, is it an insecurity that makes you think that you cannot be with a girl who would catch the load because you don't want to be with a slut? Does catching the load mean she's had too much practice? Would you guys pass on an otherwise nice woman because she did or did not catch the load? Ladies, are you ashamed to admit you would eat a load or let a guy cum in your mouth? Do you think that women who admit to doing it are sluts? If a guys lets you finish in his mouth would you return the favor?

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Permalink Reply by X-D-D-M*9 on March 2, 2011 at 7:51pm

It's between your self and that partner. If a man won't eat a woman who's into it until she's satisfied, he shouldn't expect the same. I had a woman who wasn't into swallowing and finishing completely and she made a big deal of about it even though I would go the 3 extra miles every time I went down assure she was satisfied. It didn't work out in the end, sexually we were incompatible and that imbalance was part of it.

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Permalink Reply by LesYpersound on March 2, 2011 at 8:29pm

Ooh, I agree Daoud--it's all about compatibility... some girls like to swallow (hydrated or not--personally I like "creamy" spunk in porn and irl...it seems unhealthy if the spunk is clear and watery imo) and some girls have psychological or actual physical semen "allergy"... heh. There's no right or wrong, only what's right for you.

"Does catching the load mean she's had too much practice?" No. Definitely not. It just means she's not grossed out by oral and fluids that come from our bodies. Also, imo a blow job is very serious--more serious than protected penetrative sex. I know a lot of guys and some girls view it as something casual like a handshake... but i don't put just anyone's pissing tool into my mouth. haha. And...really, some of the kinkiest ppl I've met are nerdy and not exactly banging any and everything that moves (in fact, most of them lost their virginity relatively late)--that said, swallowing isn't even all that kinky.

"Ladies, are you ashamed to admit you would eat a load or let a guy cum in your mouth? Do you think that women who admit to doing it are sluts? If a guys lets you finish in his mouth would you return the favor?" Would I be ashamed? No. Would I judge another? No. I've never and rarely "finish", but I don't consciously withhold sex or sex acts as a way to reward or punish another person. Also I really dislike the idea of tit-for-tat... I think stuff should flow naturally and ppl should do what they enjoy doing. And pleasing your partner should be a source of your own sexual satisfaction. This is why I need to be w/ a person who actually enjoys having sex with women or ppl in general versus just a man who wants his orgasm and that's that.

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I'm not sure why being w/ a slut is a bad thing--what should matter is if she's promiscuous OR if she's a liar and an unethical slut, not if she enjoys sex. I'd think men would think themselves lucky to be w/ a woman who enjoys sex (unless they're sadists or super selfish and want their partners to suffer or merely cope w/ the most likely boring, lazy sex he's putting out).

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Permalink Reply by Compound Egret on March 2, 2011 at 10:07pm

Everyone just hurdled over the fact that this was a group conversation at work! Every workplace is different, but I can count the coworkers I would want to hear this info from on less than one hand. I'll pass on the question as well.

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Permalink Reply by kifaru on March 3, 2011 at 12:44pm

Well. I'm pretty sure that a lot of people have a set of standards in their mind about what is and what is not "nasty". I think that has a lot to do with how people perceive an act. I remember a time and it still exist in some places where a guy was thought of as deviant if he went down on a woman. I heard a lot of women (granted much older than me) even say that they didn't want a man licking on them down there like some dog. I think that perception has a lot to do with whether a woman would even do it and I believe perception has a lot to do with a man asking for it. I can remember hearing some older guys telling talking and saying that you don't do in your house what you do in the street. Likewise I remember hearing my contemporaries say things like you can't turn a 'ho into a housewife. That kind of attitude seems to come from men and women. so much so that when I asked my best female friend about it she said she would never tell certain women that she would swallow because they would think less of her.

When I have asked the guys I know who cheat on their wives, it always seems like they talk about how good the head they get is from their respective cheating partners and how they couldn't get that type of service at home. Several of them said that the women they were cheating with were not wife material. Most of them said they couldn't wife up a woman like that because

A. If she will cheat with me she will cheat on me

B. I don't know how many dicks have been in her mouth. (I'm thinking to myself be real. You know you kissed her. Why are you tripping?)

I also had some guys comment that they felt uncomfortable finishing in their girlfriends mouths. A few guys were still pretty adamant that if they couldn't blast off they knew they were sexually incompatible with a woman because they felt that if they were willing to go the extra mile the woman should too.

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Permalink Reply by X-D-D-M*9 on March 3, 2011 at 4:11pm

Okay, let me get off the fence:

Yeah I like giving & recieving the whole way. But am I a hypocrite for not wanting to taste my own come? The last woman I was with (the same who was funny about swallowing) would always try some slick shit trying to kiss me immediately after reluctantly swallowing.

One time she did it and I was like 'what's up?' And she was like if I taste it, why not you? And I said so I did, what's with the tit-for-tat? I never had a problem licking her dry and she didn't trip on tasting herself. I don't know, I'm like let me taste you and you taste me and save the mixed drink stuff. Maybe I am wrong...

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Permalink Reply by kifaru on March 3, 2011 at 5:55pm

If she already swallowed there's nothing there to taste right? I have had a few women trip about kissing me after and that ended it because if she thinks her stuff is nasty then I know her stuff is nasty.

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Permalink Reply by LesYpersound on March 8, 2011 at 7:44pm

Yeah I don't like tit-for-tat bullshit tbh--you should "share" because you think it's hot not to punish your partner.

I don't think you're wrong though... cum has a psychological component to it, obviously... sloppy pussy juice kisses don't involve babymaking batter so it's obvious why her fluids aren't the same as your fluids.

I'm curious though... are you also repulsed if she swallowed wholly OR she tries to kiss you before you've cum'd in her mouth (so her mouth and lips are glistening with her spit and your precum)?

Daoud said:

Okay, let me get off the fence:

Yeah I like giving & recieving the whole way. But am I a hypocrite for not wanting to taste my own come? The last woman I was with (the same who was funny about swallowing) would always try some slick shit trying to kiss me immediately after reluctantly swallowing.

One time she did it and I was like 'what's up?' And she was like if I taste it, why not you? And I said so I did, what's with the tit-for-tat? I never had a problem licking her dry and she didn't trip on tasting herself. I don't know, I'm like let me taste you and you taste me and save the mixed drink stuff. Maybe I am wrong...

In othernews, somehow just ejaculated cum tastes so much more nicer than cooled off spunk. M'eh... somehow that makes me gag... it's because the consistency is like runny eggs and I hate runny eggs.

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Permalink Reply by LesYpersound on March 8, 2011 at 8:43pm

Ha... this was in my tumblr feed (or whatever it's called)

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Permalink Reply by X-D-D-M*9 on March 9, 2011 at 11:53pm

^^^ Truth. Why run a 99 meter dash? Cross the finish line a champion.

I'll add one (shouts to Akinelye "Mr. Put-It-In-Ya-Mouth):

SIGN UP NOW FOR YOUR VAGINA DINER'S CLUB CARD!

Or as my man Kirk Cannon says:

FREE MOUSTACHE RIDES!

My problem with my ex was her kissing me with unswallowed cum still in/on her mouth. She rarely if ever swallowed everything and always felt the need to "share". C'mon now, ain't no half-steppin'.

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Permalink Reply by kifaru on March 10, 2011 at 6:57am

Yeah, if you're going take my kids with you, take all of them. I still think that there is a real stigma attached to women who admit it. In our continuing conversation at work a woman commented that the men who liked to dine at the "Y" are "weak". As in you can't beat well if you learned how to eat it well.

Daoud said:

^^^ Truth. Why run a 99 meter dash? Cross the finish line a champion.

I'll add one (shouts to Akinelye "Mr. Put-It-In-Ya-Mouth):

SIGN UP NOW FOR YOUR VAGINA DINER'S CLUB CARD!

Or as my man Kirk Cannon says:

FREE MOUSTACHE RIDES!

My problem with my ex was her kissing me with unswallowed cum still in/on her mouth. She rarely if ever swallowed everything and always felt the need to "share". C'mon now, ain't no half-steppin'.

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Permalink Reply by LesYpersound on March 10, 2011 at 9:28am

Prudes are boring... but y'know what there are folks who like that boring, meat and potatoes kind of sex. They should be together... ppl who are more open-minded/adventurous/slutty should find ppl like themselves and it's all good. It's sexual compatibility--so, who cares if random ppl deem what you do as slutty or boring? The only ppl it really matters to are the ppl you're fucking.

In other words, there's no definitive answer. :]

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Permalink Reply by X-D-D-M*9 on March 10, 2011 at 6:58pm

^^^ makes sense LesY, let the 'missionaries' get together the same boring way. And Kifaru that's a funny one homegurl added on. No space for adventure hunh.