Turn Ons...

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Permalink Reply by Ken-K on December 28, 2009 at 1:27pm

Fascinating. . . . . but not that surprising!

Looks: Sometimes I like a thick'ums, dreads are always a turn-on, glasses definitely (blew my shot with one chick this past Saturday night who really fit the bill!). Dark skin, light skin, doesn't matter.

Personality: adorably goofy, confident, intelligent, and maybe even a little potty-mouthed in public.

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Permalink Reply by Lindsey Williams on December 28, 2009 at 7:02pm

Physically: I don't really have a preference, I'm really strange, though I am not oblivious to pleasurable aesthetics, I have never been one to 'check out' people, whether I'm single or not

Personality wise: Someone who is self-aware, has a sense of humor (preferably a mix of sarcasm, wit, and downright goofy), someone comfortable with himself (and isn't always trying to play the cool kid), someone who is tolerant-or fuck it, appreciative, of the differences in others, but can stand up for their own beliefs, sweet and intelligent.

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Permalink Reply by Dennie Colt on December 28, 2009 at 10:24pm

looks: fashionable, curvy, (or slim not anorexic) full lips and cool hair haha
personality: smart, funny drinker who loves music and is very feminine i guess (and is a dirty talker )

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Permalink Reply by Mesi Laveau-Jupiter on December 29, 2009 at 4:06pm

ooooh this should be fun. =] *smiles*

looks= i personally adore melanin, after that, as long as you have two eyes and ten fingers & toes, all is well. everyone has SOME beautiful quality that could be a possible turn on.

personality is where i get pretty picky ... the BIGGEST turn-on to me is a guy who reads and is knowledgeable in literature. knowledge and spiritual adeptness is a pretty big turn-on for me. respect for the great earth, patience, stillness, and open-mindness gets me. i'm a big goof ball so humor is a must as well.

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Permalink Reply by Madamoiselle De Sade on December 29, 2009 at 5:28pm

Physical: Now, I'm noticing I like people with good shape. Some people don't take good care of their bodies and it's starting to bother me more and more. Like people with no muscle tone, especially guys .That tells me they don't do physical stuff and I'm starting to like the physical stuff. It almost always translates to being better in bed if you eat pretty good, get exercise and don't smoke two packs a day.

Personality: Creativity, my goodness- please has it. Critical Thinking Skills- please has it.

Not much really but I know the traits that turn me off and remind me of people who lack the above 2. Even a pencil neck geek is workable if they have the above 2. All that matters to me is non-clingy. I also like non-abrasive people because I feel people who always have a guard or front up really piss me off to the point where I become abrasive to their nasty attitude. I met a girl like that recently and we had words. Was not pretty. I think if you're going to put yourself in a social position, try not to be an asshole. And there's no reason to be nasty or abusive.

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Permalink Reply by chelles on December 29, 2009 at 8:14pm

looks: i love the nerds. taller than me (5'3, pretty easy), glasses, cool hair... or no hair. slim, chunky doesn't matter as long as you carry it well. tattoos and piercings are hot.

personality: funny/goofy, intelligent, confident, not judgmental, doesn't mind a girl that curses a lot, goal oriented, music lover.

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Permalink Reply by Asha Luxe on December 30, 2009 at 1:28am

Hmmm...since i'm bi i guess i have to do twice the work lmao!
Guys
physical: tall and skinny glasses are preferred, hair shorter than mine at the moment
personality: i love them nerdy...sensitive yet slightly sarcastic..artsy..passionate ;)

and for the ladies...
physical: slender about the same height as me (5'2) with a cute hair cut or locks piercings and tattoos
personality: bi (lol) artsy i like my girls a little more extroverted than i like my guys!

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Permalink Reply by Morgan on December 30, 2009 at 2:40am

my turn ons would include: unique style.... tatoos.......... muscular in some kind of way........ basically tall, dark , and handsome...just with tatoos...... like dennis rodman.....
and for personality............ they would have to be smart in some kind of way........ funny............ someone i cold actually talk to....... very open minded... caring....... laid back but not lazy....... listen to a WIDE variety of music...... and thats about it......=]]

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Permalink Reply by Rand0mgirl on December 30, 2009 at 9:11am

I'm also bisexual...actually...maybe pan....but anyway for the ladies:
the personality would be same for both genders.

Physical: curvy, not too tall (5'8 at most), decent boobage, i still luv dreadlocks on girls as well, cute butt

Asha Barbie said:

Hmmm...since i'm bi i guess i have to do twice the work lmao!
Guys
physical: tall and skinny glasses are preferred, hair shorter than mine at the moment
personality: i love them nerdy...sensitive yet slightly sarcastic..artsy..passionate ;)

and for the ladies...
physical: slender about the same height as me (5'2) with a cute hair cut or locks piercings and tattoos
personality: bi (lol) artsy i like my girls a little more extroverted than i like my guys!

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Permalink Reply by Rand0mgirl on December 30, 2009 at 10:17pm

ditto. i don't run into many girls that i could date. :l

Kendrick Irvin said:

Well shit, I guess I missed a part lol. I'm bi also.

I've already gone over girls, so guys:

Looks: Well I like a guy who takes care of himself, I don't think i have much more specifics than that. If I figure out more I'll be back

Personality: Bi, thats a must on either side. Is like a man and not like girl. I guess kind of like me. I like me :)

Yeah I know I'm pretty vague, but I just haven't ran into a lot of guys that I'm interested around here. So I guess "to be continued.." is in order. lol

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Permalink Reply by Asha Luxe on December 31, 2009 at 6:48pm

omg the same im way more critical of the girls i date than the guys i date

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Permalink Reply by Madamoiselle De Sade on January 2, 2010 at 3:50am

I am bi or perhaps pan and tho it is hard to find, I really enjoy the companionship of bi males. Bi females grow on trees- I love them all the same- more of a chance for polyamory. Bi males are so hard to find but almost always sexy ony multiple levels. I've met so many bi girls but only a surprisingly small number have me hooked. I don't know. ..chicks, man.

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