What turns you on about the opposite sex?

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Permalink Reply by Madamoiselle De Sade on February 11, 2009 at 11:19pm

I seriously regret showing you how to start a topic.

But i might as well join in on the "14 y/o who has never had sex and can't approach it with the slightest shred of maturity or restraint" fest.

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Permalink Reply by Lucky Church on February 12, 2009 at 12:04am

You know u love me........ you're my biggest fan!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mlle d. Sade said:

I seriously regret showing you how to start a topic.

But i might as well join in on the "14 y/o who has never had sex and can't approach it with the slightest shred of maturity or restraint" fest.

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Permalink Reply by The Original Jayna on February 14, 2009 at 11:33pm

I would say that the things I find attractive in men are lips, eyes, teeth, and body mods. well it's like that for both O and intelligence nothing is sexier than someone well educated lol

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Permalink Reply by Christopher Irving on April 1, 2009 at 3:21am

Intelligence,great sense of humor,beautiful skin(light or dark IT DOES'NT MATTER!!),beautiful eyes,and most def if she has a nice body with body mods(tattoos and piercings A MUST!!!).

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Permalink Reply by MER on April 1, 2009 at 3:43pm

For me, it's all about intelligence. I'm attracted to dorky/nerdy guys. On looks, I would say, pretty boy looks. I really don't get it. XD

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Permalink Reply by X-D-D-M*9 on April 1, 2009 at 6:46pm

Good one Lucky & yeah she does love you. ;P

Adventurous women willing to share their experiences and find more. Multi-lengual is a big plus, a woman fluently speaking another language without pretention is an instant turn-on.

Let me mention what I don't really dig: McKnight Chicks. What are they, you ask? Allow me to explain...
"McKnight Chicks" are those boring working women who may be cute but the most adventurous music they have in their record collections is some Brian McKnight cds.

Hunh? You've got to be kidding me. All this great music in the world and your favorite artist is Brian McKnight? No disrespect to Bri, but even he probably has some unusal, outside-the-mainstream tunes that even he listens to. Take a chance sweetheart, buy something from the international section. Try some Omar, he's not that way out, you might like it. Let Erykah expand your mind a bit. As much as I love 'em, there's more to classic soul than Luther and Maze. Escape from the box.
Nothing but Chicken McNuggets for McKnight Chicks. Go read Zane books instead of living out real Zane episodes and better.

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Permalink Reply by Compound Egret on April 1, 2009 at 11:52pm

In defense of some of the "McKnight chicks", they are never in competition with anyone for the most obscure band or reference, and they like what they like. They aren't afraid of being confused with one of "those" Black people if they get caught singing some Mary J or Keyshia Cole in the driveway. As long they can respect the differences, it's not a deal breaker.

A good sense of humor, humility, and adaptability go a long way.

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Permalink Reply by Death is Drunk on April 2, 2009 at 5:34pm

Great sense of humor, loving, caring, intelligent and honest.

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Permalink Reply by X-D-D-M*9 on April 2, 2009 at 7:40pm

Heh, I suspected my 'McKnight Chicks' statement might start something...

EC, I dig Mary J and respect women who like her stuff. I'm going out with an admitted 'McKnight Chick' this weekend because like JahLuv said, it's not the most important thing or as you said, a dealbreaker. I just get tired of funny looks if I suggest to a woman 'Ne-Yo's cool but check this Rapheal Saadiq...'

I went out with 'McChick' last month (see? you ain't an gotta be Afro-Boho queen to hang with D ;P) who straight flipped when I pulled out a film with subtitles. I wasn't trying at all to be patronizing or 'teach' her anything, I just wanted to watch a romance she hadn't seen. So much for that (she didn't want to watch my Triumph The Insult Comic Dog dvd either so hey).

In fact speaking of Triumph: I like a sick sense of humor similar to mine.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ugk37TvIR8E&feature=related

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Permalink Reply by Rosenda on April 12, 2009 at 2:29pm

Triumph is the best comedian ever. Woof Woof. He even sounds like one my man's brother's cracking jokes. OH!

Hm I noticed what's attractive to me has kinda changed over time. (Kinda.) But a guy you like and get along with who treats you nice and makes you laugh sometimes is a definitely plus.

And I like a dude in a hat. A nice hat no not baseball caps but a hat. Even a cheap hat looks cute sometimes if it goes with your particular style and personality. Personality.....guys who amuse you and spark your brain always grab my attention. Even when I know I shouldn't pay attention to them.

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Permalink Reply by ontray haley on May 11, 2009 at 8:24am

well i,m a brother that like alot of things about a lady but i,m a foot man and it,s something about a lady feet that just drives me crazy.but i also like whats in a sistas heart too so i just love sexy ass women.i also like a sistas smile and her swagger thats a plus,nice hips and a nice butt is also great too.

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Permalink Reply by CocoaPuss Zine on May 14, 2009 at 2:40am

i like men who smell really good, it's a deep masculine smell and it makes me so crazy. i also like guys with stretched earlobes. i just think it looks hot. i'm not sure why.

i constantly find myself staring at women's boobies. If i ever got into a lesbian relationship,which isn't entirely out of the question, I'd want my woman to have a big chest and be very feminine.

It seems like I'm attracted to overly masculine and overly feminine qualities.

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