an this plzzzhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LBM89valaBI
... the other Black experience
Wouldn't that be an insult??
On another site there was the typical rapper bitching about black women. Just another day of the week. It was the run of the mill rah rah same as always.
But then he threw this in:
"My girl is Black and White. I guess the half White in her is where she still cooks and do all the shit that I say, so we make it. She just takes care of me and I like that. She don’t be begging and I don’t gotta buy her all this crazy ass shit."
Naturally I was not that shocked at the levels of IGNORANT in that statement. (we are talking a backward ass rapper here)
But wouldn't that be insulting to say about your mate even in jist?
what's your take?
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Permalink Reply by LesYpersound on -
jest... jist is too close to jizz. :P
this is why i'm really suspicious w/ ~ 60% of the black guys who "hit/holler/oogle" at me especially if their opening line is about my hair or skin or being mixed w/ something...any of that ish = gtfo. and of course this guy's bullshit is insulting to his girlfriend, but that girl debases herself obv'y in order to be w/ a man so stupid.
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Permalink Reply by Madamoiselle De Sade on -
He's not enough of a man to be with a woman who won't debase herself. In order for a larger than you think number of men to be comfortable with a woman we basically need to assume pre-liberation positions. Which is closer to the social reality. Laws can be passed but idiots like this seem to rule the day.
To him, it's a high compliment on her because this is what all women should be like.
lol off the charts amount of ignant. Giving rappers a bad name. Making white girls look bad too (try that subservient mess with a middle-lower class Italian and/or Jewish girl.I'll wait while she cusses you out. ..lol). Really making black men look like shit, as well.
Just shit all the way around. Spread it!
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Permalink Reply by Madamoiselle De Sade on
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jahluv said:Is it insulting and ignorant - yes. Do all women find it so - no.
It's no coincidence that many of us (AP females and women who don't believe in this in general) are single because this is such a common sentiment between men and women. If you're not ready to bow down and accept man as your master. ....you're going to be an old maid. That's the case for most of us women. Sad but oh so, true. Most men just don't want a woman who isn't going to do as he says because she has no purpose at that point. It's the main difference between "wife" material and fuck material.
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Permalink Reply by jihad.jones on -
My boyfriend works at a barbershop, and he tells me about some of the conversations they have about women. It's a "black" barbershop (95% of the clientele are black), and about half of the black men that go there are dating or are married to white women. A conversation came up about interracial dating, and one man said with such conviction: "The white man took our women back in slavery days, now we're just doing the same thing to them." That statement was riddled with so much fuckery I had to laugh to keep from hunting the man down. Both this guy's statement and Slim Thug's (he doesn't deserve anonymity over this shit) statement are not only insulting to their mates, but they're just a testament to their ignorance. It says that the only reason you're with the woman who bore all 5 of your kids and took your bullshit is because of a 400-year-old vendetta you have against that woman's great-great-great grandfather. Never mind the fact that she might love you.
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Permalink Reply by Madamoiselle De Sade on
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^^I've heard that revenge thing before, too.
Cause it's all about the men. Well, it is a man's world. We just live in it and have the babies and take the shit. Most of us (women) like eating shit because that's all we can do.
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Permalink Reply by lyfenlyn on -
And the irony is he probably has said this in front of her many times, and she just stands there looking silly, and asks him what he wants for lunch.
jihad.jones said:My boyfriend works at a barbershop, and he tells me about some of the conversations they have about women. It's a "black" barbershop (95% of the clientele are black), and about half of the black men that go there are dating or are married to white women. A conversation came up about interracial dating, and one man said with such conviction: "The white man took our women back in slavery days, now we're just doing the same thing to them." That statement was riddled with so much fuckery I had to laugh to keep from hunting the man down. Both this guy's statement and Slim Thug's (he doesn't deserve anonymity over this shit) statement are not only insulting to their mates, but they're just a testament to their ignorance. It says that the only reason you're with the woman who bore all 5 of your kids and took your bullshit is because of a 400-year-old vendetta you have against that woman's great-great-great grandfather. Never mind the fact that she might love you.
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Permalink Reply by lyfenlyn on
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many women don't have a single clue what it means to belong to onesself, and have self respect. many women have been brainwashed to believe that it's better to be disrespected by a man and have one than suffer the shame and stigma of ...(gulp) BEING SINGLE!!!!
Madamoiselle De Sade said:^^I've heard that revenge thing before, too.
Cause it's all about the men. Well, it is a man's world. We just live in it and have the babies and take the shit. Most of us (women) like eating shit because that's all we can do.
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Permalink Reply by Rage_Proletaire on -
lyfenlyn said:many women don't have a single clue what it means to belong to onesself, and have self respect...
I'll spare ya'll the litany, but suffice it to say that I've felt the same way about a lot of guys I've crossed paths with. Never understood the urgent need for trophies...
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Permalink Reply by lyfenlyn on
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I assumed in the beginning of his 'rant' that he would just be talking about the (ahem) women that he attracts and is attracted to because he's a rapper. He doesn't have the capacity to reason that whole thing out. Most tramps can't cook, that's why they tramps IDIOT.
I have told my male friends for years....."If you don't want hoes, stop putting out hoe bait"
I bet if I wrote a rap song that included everything I told them, I'd be hunted like Malcolm X and assasignated.
Rhonda Coons said:I don't think the not cooking and all thing is a matter of race. That's just a matter of little girls who had to grow up to fast to pick up on the useful aspects of domesticity. I can cook, I can fix stuff, but I don't need some dude buying me swag to feel like a cool chick. Taking pride in yourself and being a female dog have slowly become blurred lines...
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Permalink Reply by lyfenlyn on
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More of the interview.....
The way Black people think in general is messed up. Both men and women need to change their way of thinking. It’s hard to trust a Black woman [sometimes] because a lot of Black women’s mind frame is that the man gotta do everything for her⎯ he gotta pay for this, he gotta pay for that, and if it ain’t about money then a lot of them ain’t fucking with him. If that’s what you’re here for then I don’t want to be with you.
Most single Black women feel like they don’t want to settle for less. Their standards are too high right now. They have to understand that successful Black men are kind of extinct. We’re important. It’s hard to find us so Black women have to bow down and let it be known that they gotta start working hard; they gotta start cooking and being down for they man more. They can’t just be running around with their head up in the air and passing all of us.
I have a brother that dates a White woman and he always be fucking with me about it saying, “Y’all gotta go through all that shit [but] my White woman is fine. She don’t give me no problems, she do whatever I say and y’all gotta do all that arguing and fighting and worry about all this other shit.”
My girl is Black and White. I guess the half White in her is where she still cooks and do all the shit that I say, so we make it. She just takes care of me and I like that. She don’t be begging and I don’t gotta buy her all this crazy ass shit. And she’s a smart girl too. She graduated from Columbia [University] and I like that about her so it’s cool. I’ve dated girls that will buy a $3,000 bag and don’t know how to pay it off on their credit cards. They walk around in these Louis Vuittons and red bottoms but they’re riding around in raggedy cars, so it’s just getting your priorities right.
Um so driving a more expensive car and having more debt every month is getting my priorities right? His retardation is mind boggling.
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Permalink Reply by Golem_3 on -
who is this rapper?
not that I'm gonna start a boycott, but if its a rapper that none of us listen to / or let alone even respect, then we shouldn't care. I mean, the Black men who happen to think like that shouldn't even be of your concern.
btw, I've known White men that are just as morally-corrupt as Black guys (in regards to objectifying a mixed race woman). White men aren't as vocal about it, but me being a man, I've noticed that any man will tell the truth around other men. The things I've heard my former White co-workers talk about during happy hour. I don't think this is a problem thats exclusive to just Black men. Yes, its disgusting that some Black men feel that way, and should I ever have daughters I will LOVE them so much that I hope they wont even have a micro interest in assholes like that.
and is it really true that many AP women here are single only because men are power-trippin tyrants?
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Permalink Reply by LesYpersound on
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"Black women have to bow down and let it be known that they gotta start working hard; they gotta start cooking and being down for they man more. They can’t just be running around with their head up in the air and passing all of us."
... lol. watch me! :p
whatever to this fool. whoever wants him can have him.
this is the same cesspool that gives us the "don't air out our dirty laundry" mentality when it comes to incest accusations and rape. black women need to do XYZ. good black men are rare and valuable--so what are black women (and white women or mixed women or asian women or latina women trophies)? garbage that can be used, abused, and discarded.
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