Your First Time..................

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Permalink Reply by Ken-K on February 17, 2009 at 8:39am

Daoud said:

Ghettopunkrocker said:

Yeah, us nerds weren't slept with...just slept on. Some day the masses will learn, "Nerds...we might look like Steve Urkel, but we'll fuck ya like Mr. Marcus"

CaliforniaAfrican said:

Hell yeah, without the cap!

I was a scary-ass nerd who missed about on a few opportunites (I believe) to 'lose it' in high school. I was so self-conscious after being the the target of so much clowing throughout middle school that I didn't take any advancements toward me seriously. Also I was afraid that if these girls really dug me, I'd have to actually perform which was even more daunting at the time. So most of my teenage years were left lusting for girls across the hallway and fantasies about what it it's really like. I straight swore I was going to die a virgin.

In my 20's I was working at record store and met this woman looking for music. Cute, short brownskinned jawn with a wide woven summer hat in her mid-40's, we'll call her Ms. V. I gave her some suggestions and then she said 'I need something to have sex to'. I played cool but this did catch me off guard. I gave her some ideas and got her number.

On our first date went out to dinner and she kept teasing me about how something was going to happen but not tonight. In my head I was like cool, but man if it could go down now that would be all that. We went back to her place and after some making out, she led me to her bedroom.

My heart was pumping like hell while I was getting undressed, thinking 'oh damn I'm gonna have sex'. Well it almost happened because I, um, false-started. I didn't even get out of the blocks. So quickly I think, plan B: head downtown. So what was to be my first sex ended up being my first trip down south. I didn't know for sure what I was doing but her reaction seemed to confirm I was doing something right. And it was more enjoyable than I expected.

The next morning I finally did it with and started learning about the finer points from Ms. V like foreplay, stamina, what to do if the condom comes off, technique, etc. She pretty much taught me everything and I just followed along. After a few back and forth dramas, we went our different ways and I saw her once afterwards. Most anything that I knew and did with women afterwards I learned from Ms. V and they can all thank her for that, ha!

Wherever you are Ms. V, gracias.

I still need to get me an older lady at some point. My ex was technically older, but only by like four years. I'm talkin' a good decade gap.

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Permalink Reply by X-D-D-M*9 on February 17, 2009 at 6:16pm

You will not regret it, bro. Word is bond.

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Permalink Reply by Rosenda on February 25, 2009 at 8:41pm

Well, I think enough people on the old boards know my story so I'm not gonna repeat it here.
I'll say this though, it didn't feel REAL good until the fourth time we had sex.

All of a sudden I was like DAMN this is starting to feel GOOD. Now I understand why people do all kinds of stupid shit to get sex. Wow. I started rather late, not intentionally, but I'm lucky I met who I did those years ago. Cause it really keeps getting better as we got closer. Calif African you said somewhere else about asking for what you want. Yes, that is an awesome thing.

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Permalink Reply by Angela on June 15, 2009 at 4:21am

i learned that at 26 i found me a nerd and i never came so much in my life!

Ghettopunkrocker said:

Yeah, us nerd weren't slept with...just slept on. Some day the masses will learn, "Nerds...we might look like Steve Urkel, but we'll fuck ya like Mr. Marcus"

CaliforniaAfrican said:

Brotha GhettoPunkRocker, let me say something about that. My husband, who was a virgin until 27 (I turned him out of course), was never a scum bag. So, he doesn't worry about our daughter. I do!! I was a straight nerd. But I still planned my love escapades. My parents knew nothing. Both our children are nerdy. Especially our son, just like his daddy. But, Veta already has a big booty like her momma. I know I'm going to have to watch her!

Ghettopunkrocker said:

Kind of reminds me of this point I bring up regarding when dad's have daughter's of there own. They think about all the crap they did, now it's there turn to ward off a bunch of horny creeps that see someone's daughter as an opportunity. I guess I don't have to worry about that because I wasn't a scum bag trying to hump everything. Shit, with all the STD's, potential baby mama drama, Girls wanting a thug life nigga, ,muthafuckas picking a fight over girls and girls going for older dudes who looked like Clifton Powell or Rick James. Shit, my dick wrote "Mr. Lonely" years ago and got Akon to do the track!

CaliforniaAfrican said:

My first time was planned by me. I was 15, he was 17. I was a sophomore, he was a junior. Damn. I don’t have any idea why my mother would allow me to walk with him down to his house on New Year’s Eve. I lied and said that his mother was home. Why did she trust me so much?

This bold young brotha took me into his momma’s bedroom. I can still remember how cool and relaxed I felt. I didn’t take off my top and he got butt naked. We attempted to make love, but it hurt too much for me. So, he was cool. He jumped up, all naked, and started waving that big dick in my face. It was so funny. We laughed and laughed. Then we got dressed. I remember being so excited to finally see a real penis up close. lol He boiled me a hotdog and we held each other watching Dick Clark on the TV. My first time, really didn’t work. But, it was still my first time.

My husband and I have only 6 years until our daughter is 15! Ahhh!

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Permalink Reply by Miss Lashea on February 3, 2010 at 6:21pm

I remember my first time and it was not fun.

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Permalink Reply by MER on February 16, 2010 at 1:24am

The time was short b/c the man was big, and I hurt a lot for several days.

XD

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Permalink Reply by Drew on May 11, 2010 at 6:18pm

i didn't start having sex until i was 19. it was this girl i knew from a Subway near my job (LoL). we met through a mutual friend. we had hung out a few times in her attempt to "break my protective shell", and SOMEHOW we ended up at my house one night to hang out. we were watching "Rent" (of all things in film history). one minute we're sitting there, the next she's giving me this....famished smirk and says "come here". the next minute we're kissing, the next shes reaching for my pants, and the next thing i know shes on top of me, grinding away to "Five hundred twenty-blahblahblah six hundred minutes". and i'm like "am i REALLY losing my virginity to the Rent soundtrack?" LoL at any rate...it was good... i suppose for a first time. she was more experienced than me, but apparently i was able to hold my own. i think waiting was the better choice in my opinion. being older when you start having sex can make you vastly more proficient in knowing what your partner likes and wants. luckily for me i got the whole oral thing fairly easily, so she dug that (a few times). what i lacked in thrust and motion skill she made up for in knowing how to move. a few times she said she had to stop (for reasons i didn't get until after we finished). strangely i went for way longer than we thought i would. we started at the beginning of the movie, and by the time we were done the ending credits were rolling (so yeah, quite a while i suppose) no lie though, she KILLED me on top. i remember i could barely walk the next day. she texted me later that same day and said "i think you broke me...", so i guess we broke even. LoL. ah, youth.

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Permalink Reply by Lewis-Percell on November 13, 2010 at 2:53am

My first time was like, ehhh...
i was 16 and she was 20...
it was some good pussy,
but she had me doing ALL the work...
-_-
the whole time, im thinkin...
"aren't we supposed to switch positions?"
*sigh*
the next day, same routine...
*blah*
later that nite, she wanted to get it in,
and i turned her down...
smh
she was fine too...
made me wish i had "waited"

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Permalink Reply by blackjack40 on January 16, 2012 at 7:07pm

WHATS GOOD FAMO KINGJAMESLIVE IN CHICAGO 2012 JUST BUMPED INTO THIS MESSAGE... MY FIRST TIME WAS SOME WHAT OF A SURPRISE FOR ME I WAS IN GRAMMER SCHOOL 8TH GRADE MY MOTHER BEEN IN SOME BAD RELATIONS  WITH MY POPS SO WE MOVED TO THE NORTHSIDE CHITOWN AND I GOT IN TO THE NEW SCHOOL AND MET SUM FAMO AND THEN THIS LAID BACK  PUERTU RICAN MAMI QUITE COOL AN HELPFUL WE MET WHEN MY MOM DIDNT HAVE THAT SCHOOL LUNCH CASH SO I WAS GONNA BE HUNGRY SO I JUST KICK IT AT SCHOOL SO SHE DOES HER WHATS UP CHAT MY BELLYS GROWLLING FEIRCE SHE SAID U HUNGRY I SAID NAW SHE SAYS UMMM YA BELLYS KICKING UP SUM NOISE TAKE THIS IT WAS SOME FOOD I WAS LIKE LADI (SORRY THAT WAS HER NAME) YOU THE BOMB SHE SMILED AND DIPPED OUT ON A BROTHA I WAS LIKE WOWW WE BECAME TIGHT FRIENDS THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING CAUSE SHE WORE THEM NICE JUMPSUITS AN COOL KICKS  TOOK ME TO HER FAMO'S HOME COOL PEOPLE AN CHILLED HER MOM FED ME LIKE A STUFF PIG I NEW WHERE I WAS GOING IF MY HOUSE WAS LOW I DIDNT WANT SEEM THIRSTY SO I WOULD DISAPPEAR ON HER  SHE ALWAYS FOUND ME ...OK TO LONG  SO WHERE GRADUATEING AND MOVING ON TO HIGH SHCOOL SO SHE PULLS ME TO THE SIDE AND SAY U WANNA DITCH FRIDAY AND I WAS LIKE WHATEVER  AND DIPPEDD ON ME SO FRIDAY COMES MY MOM DIPPS MY SIS DIPPS AND IM AT THE SPOT THINKING SHE NOT GONNA COME A KNOCK AT MY BACK DOOR SHE THERE IN A BLCK  MINI ON  WITH A TUBE TOP AND SANDALS

AND IM LIKE DAM!!!!! SHE THICK AS FUCK AND AN ASS ON HER LIKE WHAT THE FUCK LIP GLOSS HER HAIR PULLED BACK IN A BRAID WOW I STILL REMEBER SHE SMILES COMES IN OR RATHER ASKS SHE COME IN WITH A DUFFLE BAG IM LOOKINGLIKE  YOU GONNA BE AWHILE AN SHIT ...LAUGHING SHE SAY YEA WITH YOU WE HAD A BALL NICE MEAT AN RICE SPICY KOOLAID AND SNAKS WE BOUNCE TO MY ROOM AND SHE STRIPS DOWN TO HER NAKED ASS IM LIKE A NEWBIE TALKING SHIT DICK HARD SHE SAYS SHE GONNA HANDLE THIS PUSH ME ON THE BED KISSING AN LICKING ME THEN SHE PULLS AT MY GYM SHORTS THROWS THEM GOBBLES ME DOWN TO THE BAS E MY EYES AN SHIT WIDE OPEN IM WET HOT INEXPERINCED AND THEN SHE CLIMBS ME SLOW SLIDES DOWN MY MONSTA OOO ...MY ...HEAVEN  SHE FILLS LIKE SOFT EVERYTHANG WHEN SHE TOUCHES ME I DIDINT GIT IT THEN I POP OFF YEA I WAS QUICK BUT SHE RODE ME MADE ME FILL EVERY OZ OF MY BODY AN MIND ...THEN SHE BENT OVA I SLID INTO HER WEEEEEEEETNESS TIGHT AND I BANG THAT ASSS UNTIL #2 CAME AGAIN  THEN ON HER BACK LEGGS PULLED UP I DIPPED INTO HER POOL OF HONEY AND LOSS MY FUCKING MIND SHE BANG I BANG I BANG SHE BEATS THE DICK UP, SWEAT, SWEET MUSK SCENT BODY HEAT SHIT EVERYTHANG IN MY MIND I HAD FOUND SEX LOVE, WOMEN LOVE, PASSION, PAIN, JOY, FEAR, ALL THESE FEELINGS WE CAME TOGETHER SHE CRIED OUT I SCREAMED PAIN PLEASURE .........WOW

I LOOKED INTO HER EYES I WANTED HER EVERYTHANG WE PLAYED ALL DAY I DID GET BETTER HMMMM...

SHE WAS MY FRIEND AND LOVER ..SAD PART IS AFTER HER IT WAS LIKE PHERMOAN EVERY CHICK WANTED TO HAVE THIS AN FOOLISHLY I FELL ON MY FACE an lost my her .....): time passes by i see her she smiles an life goes on ...i hope ya git the undastnding i didnt untill later....kingjameslive@gmail.com     

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Permalink Reply by Syzhorra Shand on February 13, 2012 at 12:17am

My first time was with my first real bf...we did it in the middle of the night in my attic. It was awkward as all hell and filled with both of us complaining the whole time. Since we were both Virgins at the time.  Not the best first time but I do remember going down to my room and being like " Wow I'm finally not a virgin" I called my Bff the next day and she cussed me out for not telling her right after.

I will say that after that it got way better and I wouldn't trade it for anybody else.

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Permalink Reply by AbuelitaTalula27 on May 18, 2012 at 11:53pm

I was 21. He was 19. He was white. It was not enjoyable. He was large. I was not stimulated enough. He fell asleep. I went to school to take a test the next morning. Did well. Got a B+. I walked funny for the rest of the day.

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