Share 'i wanna move to NYC (or brooklyn..... whatever.)'

i need advice about Travel (cabs, subways, train money for travel, etc.) Living (i know it's expensive.... i want an apartment) hot spots (where to hangout: shops, art, films, cafes, etc) i'm in new jersey now-- but i managed to take a shuttle from the hotel- took a bus- dropped off in times square- took some cabs to other destinations, and did it all in reverse to get back to jersey (i wrot…